And life is little less mundane with him.

Hello,so this blog post is all about that underrated yet the purest form of love, that inseparable bond that we girls share with our male best friend.

So, we all have that one crack head guy bestfriend in our life around/with whom our life feels so comforting, around him everything feels so easy to tackle, every problem feels like it is when to be vanished when with him, right from being punished together by teachers to being handling teenage issues together, right from hesitating to start a conversation with him to scolding him for not attending his lectures, from helping him to find his girlfriend to being jealous of him talking to other girls, life always takes over a complete different turn but it is always a beautiful journey with that one monster who knows how to love you when you feel completely unlovable.

Those crazy long walks with him at night, those silly fights over the last slice of pizza that he denied to share with you, those doltish conversations together about life, when telling him "tujhse toh koi bhi na pategi" and him reciprocating "tu hai toh". Turns out to be a ritual for every conversation and  of course that deliberate splitting of amount of movie tickets where you always end up giving more.

I feel these are the small yet cherishable moments that make this bond even stronger.

You know you are too scared to confront your agony, your miseries, your insecurities to any soul but also deep within you know there's "HIM" who is not going to judge you anyways. You willingly confess your heart out, the things that made you the way you are now, the circumstances in which you were brought up, your past relationships, everything that bothered you. Because you know he never fails to stand by you at any and every adversity.

Needless to say, such relationships do not always stand on a pillar of love. Fights, jealousy are the fuel to keep this bond ever lasting. You don't tell him frequently but you know that him complimenting other girls gets you wanting to punch him, there's a little corner of jealousy in your heart that fears to come out before him but it is something that gets this bond even stronger.

A girl, aloof of other's attention is the same girl who secretly cried numerous times to get over his attention.  What an unusual bond this is! Free from evey boundation yet so beautiful beacause you know it only revolves around that crazy head human without whom your life feels mundane and little more like a journey.

At one moment you find parties feel monotonous in his absence.  And the next moment you find yourself sipping TAPRI KI CHAI WITH 2 PLATES OF MAGGIE WITH HIM,ranting about that terribly boring party.

obviously, ITS NEVER ABOUT THE PLACE. ITS ALWAYS ABOUT THE PERSON.  The bond that we girls share with our male best friends is something so surreal that even these many paras are never enough to express. 


                                           By- Anshika Awasthi

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