Some bonds are better left UNTAGGED

You know, being humans with emotions isn't that easy. Its complicated and ambiguous. It isn't something that is certain. Our emotions are in fact unprecedented when we actually want it to be explicit. 

You see, we all have, once in our life experienced a kind of bond with someone where two of us are enthralled into each other, where our day feels vividly incomplete without hearing their voice, without desiring to give them a tight hug, telling, "I am there, always. Everything will be alright".  We don't tell them quite often that "you matter for my heart. Your existence  matters to me, everything concerning you has now become a part of my life". But deep within we realise the same. 

But at the same time, strangely, we don't desire to give this exceptional bond, a name. Perhaps the bond is as beautiful as it would be with a "tag". Perhaps the happiness it fills us with would not be desiring a certain "mark". Perhaps we are afraid to be bound in a thread of commitments or perhaps some bonds are not meant to be given a tag. You are attached with that person to the core but at the same time, you do not want to fall in love with them, you love them but you do not want to be called as lovers.  Your Life would turn up to be a bliss with that person but you do not want to spend your whole life with them.

How peculiar and uncanny a human heart is! But thats what the heart does. It fills us with ambiguousness but at the same time, it whispers, " THIS PHASE IS BEAUTIFUL. LIVE IT. DO NOT LET IT SLIP WAY. that bond of you with that someone is unusual. Maybe there's where the beauty of this bond lies. Where two of you have mutual respect for each other, sharing commanilities and differences go hand in hand, you do not want to leave the hold of each other, you just want to be stuck where you are, together but you do not want to name it. You do not want to cage its purity.

Also, I would like to ask " Is it important for a certain tag to exist between to individuals? " is it really important to name a bond? " some bonds are beautiful without certain tags or I should say they are far more sincere and modest than the bonds Given a name of boyfriends- girlfriends, best friends, lovers, partners, husbands, wives etc.

Such relationships lose their essence after a period of time but the bond shared by two individuals without being conscious of its identity leaves its fragrance even after years where two of them might not go through daily conversations but carrying the same purity , the time they meet again is what an epitome of real love is.


                                          By - Anshika Awasthi 


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