One - sided love --- an underrated feeling!

You know, we all have heard like always, love is a mutual feeling between two individuals. It always involves two of us to fall in love with each other. Believing into this, if a person loves the other without the latter feeling the same, it shouldn't be called  as "love"?

Maybe we are far away to understand this psychology. But let me tell you, when you love the person knowing all their flaws, dark sides, past, the way they are in present and still choose to love them without them even knowing, the feeling is surreal.

One - sided love is as beautiful as being in a relationship. Imagine carrying feeling for someone which has no one in between. No restrictions, no third person, no priorities, no commitments, no obligations and surprisingly not even the person you love. Its just you and your feelings which gives a sense of purpose to your life. Purpose to love, purpose to feel those emotions that are only yours, you don't want to share with anyone, you don't want to share that person with anyone because thinking about them gives you happiness, a thought of them is enough to make your day. 

But isn't it strange we never gave a deep thought to this underrated feeling? The feeling carries with its own irreproachable pros that I am sure we all have witnessed once in a life.

Peeping through the window just to see that one person was mandatory because we had to live our amazing day, that shyness with a wide blush whilst suddenly encountering them, that hidden yet "visible enough to be noticed" smile when someone calls their name before is though we have to pretend as if we didn't notice. That changing to the different route because you saw them passing through the same and of course, of course that moment of victory we feel when they call us by our name.

How anxious we feel to make a second eye contacts with them! Maybe that's what this love is all about. We don't get to know when it happened, how it happened, what caused it to happen or maybe we never want to know this because what's the love with purpose? Will it be even that beautiful when you'll seek for its cause?

Absolutely NO. Love should always be purposeless. One -sided love is all about this or I should say only about this. Imagine how selfless it really is, i.e. without even waiting for the love from them, irrespective of the feeling we possess for them.

Also, why don't we just normalize such selfless feeling of love where there are no hurts,no guilt, no agonies, no grudges and definitely no boundaries. Its just all about you and only your feelings, your emotions for that one special person which you have to share with nobody.


                                             By - Anshika Awasthi

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